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PSA: This is NOT a tokka friendly blog

Have a PSA about this blog.  It is NOT tokka friendly, nor am I required to be tokka friendly.  

I do not like or ship tokka.  Never have and never will.  Sorry if this upsets you, but it isn’t my responsibly or job to make sure I’m shipping everything and doing so unbiasly.  

I don’t like tokka.  I have never liked tokka.  I will never like tokka.  Other shippers only made me lose respect for the ship, so now when I see it, I cringe.  So coming to me and telling me to be unbias doesn’t do anything,  

YES.  I do make generalizations, but can you blame me?  When you are faced with nonstop hate over LOVE, do you not get annoyed?  When you’re told liking something (in this case a ship) is wrong and you basically need to die because you ship it, don’t you lose a nerve?

Shipping is about LOVE!  It is about loving two characters while they love each other, and I have faced too much hate over the year.  It has made me bitter, and holding grudges is my fatal flaw.  I know it is an issue I have, but when I see popular tokka shippers getting praise and love for hating on Sukka/Suki, then I find no reason to let go of that grudge.  

SO!  Instead of coming to me messages about giving peace a chance whenever I make a post defending Sukka from another tokka shipper who hates on Sukka/Suki to promote tokka, why not go to the Sukka/Suki haters and tell them that they’re being immature, just like I am.  Yeah, I’m doing it in a harsher manner, but when I was nice and polite about it, I got walked all over.

I’m taking a stand over something so small, but then again, so many tokka shippers act like it’s the end of the world that Sukka is canon.  So what’s really wrong?  Defending something you love from hate or someone putting something down that you love and then bashing you for loving that thing?

I'm really sorry to hear about how you feel about Tokka. I'm not in your shoes, so I don't truly know how it feels, but I would imagine that I wouldn't let idiots stop me from liking a ship. No matter how many of them there are. I'm a multi shipper, I pretty much ship everything, and I love both Sukka and Tokka a lot. There is no right or wrong IMO.
◥		such-as-it-is

Well, they didn’t stop me from liking the ship.  I wasn’t a fan of it in the first place.  It was their constant hate that made me lose respect for it and many of it’s shippers, and one of the biggest issues I have is that the “popular” shippers hate on Sukka/Suki actively and get praise for it.  They don’t get told it’s wrong.  They get replies like “YEAH!  You rock.  Sukka Sucks.”  

When I first made this blog, hating Sukka/Suki was alright.  It was common to go onto the Sukka tag and see a plethora of hate, and not a single person going “Hey, this is rude.  Would you mind not tagging your hate?”  But, if you got a SINGLE person to say “I don’t ship tokka” then all hell was let loose.  It was as if it was illegal to ship Sukka or like Suki in this fandom, and I set out to change that.  And I like to think I did.

No.  There is no right or wrong ship, but there is a right and a wrong.  If you have to hate on another ship in order to justify or promote your ship, then you are shipping wrong.  That’s exactly what I faced with many tokka shippers.

I really do love your blog, and I respect you, but since I ship both Sukka AND Tokka, I hope that when you make those not Tokka friendly posts, that you don't actually generalize the Tokka fandom. I really hope you don't do that. I understand that there are some Tokka shippers out there that do what you accuse them of. But obviously not all are like that. :3 Anyway, have a nice day<3
◥		Anonymous

All I’m going to do is direct you to this post.  Due to the constant hate the ship, Suki, and I receive, I’ve lost all respect for tokka and it’s shippers.  I do know there are some nice ones out there, but I have not come across them.  I’ve seen plenty of two-faced people though.  People who come to me and say “Oh, I ship both Sukka and tokka!”  But then they post hate about Sukka on their blogs.  I’ve even come across people who’ve told me I’m a bitch for simply defending Sukka from hate.  

For a time period, all I did was get hate for apparently “hating” on tokka, when all I did was post canon graphics/scenes of Sukka.  Or just saying something nice about Sukka with no mention of tokka whatsoever. 

It’s been like this for a year.  Over a year, and sending me hate, telling me to die, and treating me, the ship, and Suki with no respect at all, only made me lose respect for the ship and its shippers.

I hate tokka, and I will not apologize for that.  I am sorry if it upsets some of my followers, but I’m not going to apologize for hating a ship.  

And I’m sorry tokka shippers that follow me.  Sorry because there are assholes out there who have completely ruined a ship and made me lose respect for the ship and the shippers.  Blame them for it.

themagiciansward:

Just discovered my brother is a hard core Sukka Shipper. Not a real problem, but I’ve never heard him speak about ships before. And it’s one I disagree with, too.

I really don’t see the point of tagging this with Sukka to say that you don’t like Sukka.  But clearly your brother has great taste in ships!  Go him!